Love question
Should I stay in my relationship?
This is your decision, and the cards should not make it for you. A relationship spread can lay out where things stand between you, what each of you brings and what is not being said, so the choice is clearer.
Better ways to ask
Open questions about you tend to give clearer readings than questions about what someone else will do.
- Where does my relationship stand right now?
- What am I not saying to my partner?
- What would help this relationship grow?
The spread to use
3 cards
Where Do We Stand?
Where does this relationship stand, and what is my part in it?
See the positionsCards to look out for
Ten of CupsLasting contentment and a shared sense of home.
Two of SwordsA stalemate: avoiding a decision you already sense.
Five of CupsGrief over what was lost, while something remains.
TemperancePatience and balance: working things out step by step.No single card decides a reading. Read each one in its position and alongside the others.
A note before you draw
If you or anyone is unsafe, talk to someone you trust or a local support service before any reading.
Questions about this reading
Can tarot answer "Should I stay in my relationship?"
This is your decision, and the cards should not make it for you. A relationship spread can lay out where things stand between you, what each of you brings and what is not being said, so the choice is clearer.
Which spread is best for "Should I stay in my relationship?"
The Where Do We Stand? spread (3 cards). Where does this relationship stand, and what is my part in it?
How should I word this question?
Try asking: Where does my relationship stand right now? What am I not saying to my partner? What would help this relationship grow?
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